Winston Churchill Was Right – Joy for Others Is Righteousness
You know something you did is “right/correct” when you hear the giggling squeal and see the smile. It might be something big or maybe even exceedingly small. But witnessing/ experiencing someone’s pure joy is more powerful than feeling it about yourself.
Recently, I had this experience. Who it was or what it was isn’t that important. But I saw it. I felt it. Joy. Which brings me to one of my favorite historical figures and leaders.
Winston Churchill’s quote, “You make a living by what you make. You make a life by what you give,” captures the essence of human connection and the fulfillment that comes from selflessness. One of the simplest yet most profound ways to give is by making someone else smile. A kind gesture, a thoughtful act, or even just a few moments of genuine attention can transform another person’s day—and your own.
When you do something for others, the impact often extends beyond the immediate act. Giving someone a reason to smile creates a ripple effect. It can brighten their mood, foster a sense of belonging, and inspire them to pay the kindness forward. The beauty of this is its accessibility; making someone smile doesn’t require grand gestures or significant resources. It can be as small as offering encouragement, sharing a laugh, or lending a helping hand.
In giving, there’s also an intrinsic joy for the giver. Studies show that acts of kindness stimulate the brain’s pleasure centers, releasing endorphins and fostering a sense of connection and purpose. This joy isn’t rooted in seeking validation but in the realization that you’ve contributed to someone else’s happiness. Ultimately, a life centered on giving enriches both the giver and the recipient. The smiles you inspire become a testament to the meaningful relationships and moments that define a well-lived life.
I have always been taught, and my experience is consistent with the lessons, there is more joy for the “giver” than the “receiver.” In making others joyous, you find the deeper satisfaction of a life driven by empathy, generosity, and love. Big or small, who doesn’t feel great about causing that giggle or smile in someone else?
